tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6780886689931228204.post4268035914110049867..comments2023-05-08T02:18:46.305-07:00Comments on Everything After: Not much progressAstridhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15910745805460514947noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6780886689931228204.post-12616229538587491192011-03-28T20:40:08.721-07:002011-03-28T20:40:08.721-07:00I'm so sorry you're going through this. Yo...I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're right - marriage is hard. Especially with children. But you're also right in that it shouldn't be this hard. I think you need to see a couples counselor like yesterday. And if he refuses that says a lot about what he wants to get out of all of this. I hope you can find the best solution for you and your son. Good luck.Esperanzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375150088333673843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6780886689931228204.post-5048690434000388202011-03-23T20:50:29.133-07:002011-03-23T20:50:29.133-07:00astrid, if you think that his marriage is worth sa...astrid, if you think that his marriage is worth saving and that your husband can learn to be nice and treat you with respect and that you can actually be happy, then by all means, try to work it out, but PLEASE, don't trap yourself in an unhappy marriage and spend the next 18 years of your life miserable, it's such a waste. you deserve happiness, just like everyone else in the world does.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6780886689931228204.post-12768956498772887922011-03-23T05:25:32.296-07:002011-03-23T05:25:32.296-07:00I'm no expert (although I have been through a ...I'm no expert (although I have been through a divorce but it was ions ago) but all I have heard about therapy is good things. If DH won't go with you, go on your own. If for anything to vent. And maybe get some clarity. That's what I would do if I were in your shoes. *Hugs*MeAndBabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01621038133156116317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6780886689931228204.post-10633887356995210592011-03-22T19:36:01.529-07:002011-03-22T19:36:01.529-07:00Wow, I am so sorry that you are dealing with this ...Wow, I am so sorry that you are dealing with this in your marriage right now and having a new little one in the picture makes everything that much more stressful. I hope you can both come to a decision soon that will be healthy for everyone involved. ((Hugs))<br /><br />ICLW 149Aubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14534603162700547210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6780886689931228204.post-83784801525018485022011-03-22T12:27:41.149-07:002011-03-22T12:27:41.149-07:00Hi, I'm stopping in from ICLW. I am so, so sor...Hi, I'm stopping in from ICLW. I am so, so sorry that you are going through such a painful time. I hope that your DH changes his mind about the counseling, and that you are able to find some peace, whatever decision you make.Twinside Outhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13215174603290252448noreply@blogger.com